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Mark Altrogge reminds us that God doesn’t ever do something without a purpose and plan. In this post he shares several benefits of affliction in our lives including the following:

  • Afflictions deliver us from pride.
  • Afflictions make us sympathetic, merciful and slower to judge. 
  • Afflictions remind us of the brevity of this life and make us long for heaven where our true treasure is.
  • Afflictions stir us to pray and keep us dependent on God.
  • Afflictions are opportunities for Christ to display his power in us.

And there are more right here.

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9 purposes of sickness

The website J.C. Ryle Quotes shares the following from a tract Ryle wrote entitled “Christ in the Sick Room”.

Sickness is meant…

1. To make us think–to remind us that we have a soul as well as a body–an immortal soul–a soul that will live forever in happiness or in misery–and that if this soul is not saved we had better never have been born.

2. To teach us that there is a world beyond the grave–and that the world we now live in is only a training-place for another dwelling, where there will be no decay, no sorrow, no tears, no misery, and no sin.

3. To make us look at our past lives honestly, fairly, and conscientiously.Am I ready for my great change if I should not get better? Do I repent truly of my sins? Are my sins forgiven and washed away in Christ’s blood? Am I prepared to meet God?

4. To make us see the emptiness of the world and its utter inability to satisfy the highest and deepest needs of the soul.

5. To send us to our Bibles. That blessed Book, in the days of health, is too often left on the shelf, becomes the safest place in which to put a bank-note, and is never opened from January to December. But sickness often brings it down from the shelf and throws new light on its pages.

6. To make us pray. Too many, I fear, never pray at all, or they only rattle over a few hurried words morning and evening without thinking what they do. But prayer often becomes a reality when the valley of the shadow of death is in sight.

7. To make us repent and break off our sins. If we will not hear the voice of mercies, God sometimes makes us “hear the rod.”

8. To draw us to Christ. Naturally we do not see the full value of that blessed Savior. We secretly imagine that our prayers, good deeds, and sacrament-receiving will save our souls. But when flesh begins to fail, the absolute necessity of a Redeemer, a Mediator, and an Advocate with the Father, stands out before men’s eyes like fire, and makes them understand those words, “Simply to Your cross I cling,” as they never did before. Sickness has done this for many–they have found Christ in the sick room.

9. To make us feeling and sympathizing towards others. By nature we are all far below our blessed Master’s example, who had not only a hand to help all, but a heart to feel for all. None, I suspect, are so unable to sympathize as those who have never had trouble themselves–and none are so able to feel as those who have drunk most deeply the cup of pain and sorrow.

Summary: Beware of fretting, murmuring, complaining, and giving way to an impatient spirit. Regard your sickness as a blessing in disguise – a good and not an evil – a friend and not an enemy. No doubt we should all prefer to learn spiritual lessons in the school of ease and not under the rod. But rest assured that God knows better than we do how to teach us. The light of the last day will show you that there was a meaning and a “need be” in all your bodily ailments. The lessons that we learn on a sick-bed, when we are shut out from the world, are often lessons which we should never learn elsewhere.

(via J.C. Ryle Quotes)

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Emily Armstrong was diagnosed with epilepsy a few months ago.  She has learning a lot about the disease but God has also been teaching her some important lessons about her own heart. She observes:

But what have I learned about myself? I have had the opportunity to see how prideful and self conscious I can be. For the first few weeks I really didn’t want to leave the house at all. Not because I could have a seizure; because people would see me have a seizure, and that was way worse.

When I have a very large seizure I wretch like a cat with a hair ball, which sounds exactly as pleasant as the sound you are imagining in your head right now. It feels like the auditory equivalent of soiling myself, especially when I’m able to get up and I look around and see that people are doing their best to “act natural”. But life must go on. My daughter still needs to go to school and I still need to run errands, and maybe even go on dates with my husband. So out into the world I will continue to go, and God will have to soften me from the inside out on this point.

Another thing I’ve discovered about myself now that I have an identified illness is I want to play the “epilepsy card” when both Aaron and I have had a bad day:

“Oh, something crummy happened at work today? Well, I have epilepsy. I win.”

Clearly this would be an unhelpful strategy in my marriage, but the temptation is there. I assume I’m not the first person with an illness or a disability to want to make much of myself when things aren’t going my way (at least, I hope not!).

Lastly, I have seen how small my faith can be. Due to a mistake in the pharmacy, I ran out of my medication 5 weeks early. As soon as I realized that I did not have enough pills, I was sick with worry. What if I call the pharmacy and they don’t believe me? What if they think I’m irresponsible? What if they think I’m lying? What if I can’t get the pills in time and my brain starts sizzling left and right and I end up in a coma because I didn’t count out how many pills I had a few days ago?What if I die for this ridiculously mundane reason?!?

I don’t think a person in a spaceship with only one portion of freeze-dried space food would be more worried.

Of course, it worked out alright. The pharmacist understood the error and Aaron picked up the rest of my medication. All is well, and I need not have worried.

But this is a process. I’m still learning to do all those things that seem so easy when you don’t have to do them:

  • Be humble.
  • Value others more highly than yourself.
  • Believe that God has everything in control.

Read her whole article here.

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“The Works of God: God’s Good Design in Disability,” hosted Novemeber 8, featured four messages, a speaker panel, and a special testimony on God’s sovereignty and goodness in disability. The audio and video of each resource can be streamed or downloaded by going to the respective links below.  The last one is truly humbling and amazing.  I recommend them to you.

John Piper
When Jesus Meets Disability: How a Christian Hedonist Handles Deep Disappointment

Nancy Guthrie
Thinking Like Jesus About Disability

Mark Talbot
Longing for Wholeness: Chronic Suffering and Christian Hope

Greg Lucas
Parenting When Your Heart Is Continually Crushed

John Piper, Nancy Guthrie, Greg Lucas, Mark Talbot
Speaker Panel

Krista Horning
Testimony of God’s Good Design

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No one understands like Jesus,
He’s a friend beyond compare;
Meet Him at the throne of mercy,
He is waiting for you there.

No one understands like Jesus,
Every woe He sees and feels;
Tenderly He whispers comfort,
And the broken heart He heals.

No one understands like Jesus,
When the foes of life assail;
You should never be discouraged,
Jesus cares and will not fail.

No one understands like Jesus,
When you falter on the way;
Tho’ you fail Him, sadly fail Him
He will pardon you today.

Chorus:
No one understands like Jesus,
When the days are dark and grim;
No one is so near, so dear as Jesus,
Cast your every care on Him.

–John W. Peterson,  made well known by George Beverly Shea

Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” (Hebrews 4:14–16, ESV)

 

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“God alone can do what seems impossible. This is the promise of his grace: ‘I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten’ (Joel 2:25). God can give back all those years of sorrow, and you will be the better for them. God will grind sunlight out of your black nights. In the oven of affliction, grace will prepare the bread of delight. Someday you will thank God for all your sadness.” ~Charles Spurgeon

HT: Janelle Bradshaw

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Our daughter Camille posts almost daily regarding this season in her life of chronic fatigue. Two recent posts you may find insightful include the following:

How to Bless A Chronically Ill Friend“ which begins: About two months ago a friend asked me, “What are some ways people can help you as you deal with this illness?” At the moment, I honestly don’t remember what I said. I think I mumbled something about be willing to listen, to really listen. A few weeks later while I was chatting online with the same friend, he called me and let me talk his ear off and cry about something that was really important to me. He asked how he could help, and then he put it into action. That was a huge blessing to me. Here are ten (much more thought-out) answers to the question, “How can you bless or encourage your chronically ill friend?” Thank you for all of you who have done these things for me.

“Recumbency” describes one of her frequent symptoms and a spiritual truth it has reminded her of.

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Joe Thorn is starting a series that may be of help to some. His first post is “Getting Healthy: My Hardest Year.”  He writes,

It started with trembling hands and a sudden sense of fear. I was in between meetings in Chicago and something went “wrong” inside me. I toughed it out during my last meeting by sitting on my hands and putting on good poker face, but I was freaking out internally. This was the beginning of an awareness that I wasn’t healthy, and things got worse from there.

I shared part of this early last year, and did what I thought was needed to fix things– “rebuild a healthy schedule.” That was one area that needed to be addressed, but after some short term relief things went downhill again, even while maintaining the new schedule.

2011 was easily one of the hardest years of my life, and was the hardest year of ministry for me. My marriage and family were solid. Our church was growing and focused on Jesus and the mission, but I was constantly fearful and anxious. I was unsure of myself in many ways. I couldn’t sleep. And looking toward the future of our church I couldn’t see how things would continue in a healthy way with me in my current condition. In the midst of all of this I lost motivation to exercise and eat well. I felt lost, and for the first time in my life I had to admit that I was the most frail and weak man I knew.

A year later things are radically different, but it wasn’t time that healed my wounds. It was a number of different things and a few key people that helped my through my toughest year. Because I continue to meet men and women who have had similar struggles I’ve decided to share what went down over the past year, and how I found relief. This will take a few posts, but I hope it will be encouraging to those who find themselves discouraged, despairing, or depressed.

More posts to come here.

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Read this inspiring story of “Miss Joyce” who found out she had cancer, sold nearly everything over the next few weeks, and then lived  several more months (much longer than expected) and used every opportunity she could to encourage others.

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I have learned over the years that visiting a hospital emergency room or a CCU or ICU waiting room provides a wide open door for ministry to those who are desperately searching for hope.  I have seen Christians shine in their witness there because they have peace in the midst of some of the most turbulent times in their lives.

The author of this article has been visiting a cancer clinic frequently with his wife who has stage 4 cancer. In part he observes:

“Cancer clinics (if I may adapt one of C.S. Lewis’ more recognized phrases) are God’s megaphone to a chronically amused people. Through cancer clinics, God brings the significance of the present and the weight of glory to bear on us in ways unlike anything else. Few things, by God’s grace, capture the mind and the heart like an oncology waiting room. And we need to be captured by God — pulled away from the numbing effects of the world.

Our default instinct is to avoid pain, grief, and sorrow by covering these emotions with fun, levity, and leisure of all kinds. And I’m not immune to this sinful weakness that leaves me anesthetized to God. In other words, I need the cancer clinic waiting room because I need God.”

You don’t have to be a pastor or someone who is regularly visiting an oncology unit or treatment center to benefit from this article at the Ligonier website. Read more here.

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