Do you ever feel like a failure as a parent? I think that is a pretty universal feeling.
Carolyn Mahaney shares a time when she did:
When you add the feeling (or reality) of a mothering failure to the exhaustion, the endless work, and the temptation to compare yourself to other moms, you have a perfect motherhood storm.
This happened to me countless times when I was raising my children. I would fail in my mothering—either by something I did, or something I didn’t do—and I was sure it was a sign I would ultimately fail. That was it. My kids would never “turn out.” I had ruined them forever.
I remember one time I got angry at one of my daughters. Although I had repented before God and asked my daughter’s forgiveness, I still felt terrible. I berated myself for treating my child in such a manner. I was convinced the damage was irreparable.
But she goes on to talk about how her husband encouraged her in the gospel. It’s a good reminder that you can find in When You Feel Like a Failure.